My drag- and pen name is Lady Aria Grey, my boring name is Callum Tilbury (for legal purposes), and I would describe myself as a very old woman vexatiously trapped in the body of a 32 year old nonbinary scoundrel who is hot, sexy and charismatic. I’m a writer and drag artist, based in London where I was born, but having lived most of my life in South Africa. I suffer acutely from Nationality Dysphoria, which is (probably) not a real condition. Every pronoun applies to at least one part of me, so I don’t mind which you use.

The vast majority of my drag is based somehow in writing, and the vast majority of my writing is about drag (or at least rooted in a sense of camp, imagination and whimsy) but for the purposes of this website I’ve tried to separate them into two pages. So gird your loins, and dive in…